The B-Word

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BLOG! When I first heard the word I thought it was some kind of new medical condition. But being the research nut that I am, I looked it up to understand what it was and why everybody was talking about it. Why did I ever do that? I enjoy it. Logging my thoughts on a blog post is somehow different from posting on social media. Don’t ask me how. It just is. But as I continue to grow in my writing journey, I found myself asking the question (over-and-over again) what is the point? Why do this?

Start with understanding what a Blog is. The functions of a blog are endless in the writing community. Some writers blog to grow their business. Others write for the pure love of writing. Gaining followers and possibly making money from recording daily thoughts via the internet is more of a happy side effect of loving what I do. But it is hardly the reason why I do it. Other writers blog to share their art with the world.  They post their work on their blogs regularly. While still others blog to provide a platform for other writers to connect. which can include giving advice, offering courses and promoting seminars.

Some blogs leave me feeling that the blogger has either lost their sense of purpose for their blog or perhaps they never had one. Guilty! There have been many days, especially in the beginning, that I’ve asked myself, what’s the point?

What is the point of blogging (for me)? After some reflection, I ruled out most of the examples I referenced above. And after putting some thought into it, it eventually became clear that I never asked myself that question before. Even when I first set up my blog, there wasn’t much vision for it outside of sharing my writing journey with others. Now, I finally have a real understanding of why my blog.

As an artist, you have to love what you do in order to do it and do it well. This is true for any type of artist. Writers must love writing on some fundamental level. Blogging provides a platform for writers to express their passion for, what else? Writing! I have had to learn to love blogging. And in order to do that, I needed to have an understanding of its purpose.

I enjoy sharing whatever I learn with those who are similar to me. Starting a new career,  venturing into something new can be so terrifying for some. And for my generation and older, it can be extremely frustrating trying to navigate the world through technological eyes. How we communicate, write, market, publish is completely different from what many of us grew up understanding this industry to be. Blogging is one of those “new” elements of a drastically different and constantly changing industry that many of us still struggle to understand. In short – when I started out – I kinda thought I had to do it because every website, blog, and/or post said if you’re writing, if you’re self-publishing, then you need a voice. You need to blog.

So, I came up with an idea and I started my blog to help get my name out there and gain some writing experience so I could be a successful writer.

. . . Bologna! It makes sense now why why sometimes I love blogging and sometimes I hate it. Its because I started it because I thought I had to. I am now finding my own love for blogging and finding my happy place with it.

I have a message. I have a story. I have something to share. Everyone does. For me, blogging is a means to share ideas and provide helpful advice to hopefully prevent someone else from making similar mistakes on their writing journey. And occasionally, I’ll share something random that may have nothing to do with writing at all, but I just feel like sharing. It’s my blog – my prerogative.

I don’t and won’t have all the answers to help you on this journey. And reading blog-after-blog of advice, following authors that are selling their ideas promising to help you be successful can end in frustration and be completely overwhelming. A lot of times, the information is vague at best. My goal is to help through my own experience. Nothing more. Nothing less.

If you’re considering starting your own blog, you’ve been dragging your feet, but you really want to do it, consider these questions:

• What do you want it to be about?
• What is your purpose for blogging?
• Who is your target audience?
• Why do you want to blog?
• What would be a good schedule for you to be consistent with your blogging?
• How can you make your blog stand out from other similar blogs that are already out there?
• What’s your motivation for blogging?

Just be sure that you’re not blogging because it’s what’s hot or because you read it on the blog of some unknown, so-called guru who insists its what you need to do. Do it because you’re passionate about whatever it is you’re blogging about. Do it to give you practice with forming a habit for writing. Blog your life. You’ll thank yourself later.

Have fun. Write (and blog) on!

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NaNo: Lesson Learned

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Candace Ruffin, Candace Ruffin Author, Creating Cane, Holidays, NaNoWriMo, Write, Write on, writing

I made it through NaNoWriMo! . . . but . . . I didn’t win. Whoops. Oh well. As I compare last year’s experience with this year’s experience, I can’t deny that there are some lessons learned that are worth sharing. If this was your first NaNo experience and you didn’t make your word count I hope you’re not beating yourself up over it. There’s always next year. But just in case you’re in need of a little something to get you back in the swing of things, here’s a lesson  learned to carry on for future NaNos.

What is NaNoWriMo? (A Refresher) National Novel Writing Month (or NaNoWriMo) is an writing challenge that takes place every November. It is an opportunity for writers to push themselves to write 50,000 words in one month. That’s right. 30 days – 50,000 words. Writers use the challenge in different ways. Some writers actually plan one novel per year and they use NaNo to write it. Others just like the challenge of it. Some begin a new book series using NaNo and others just do it for fun. Whatever the reason, if you love writing like I do, it’s a great way to push yourself.

Last Year vs. This Year Last year was my first time participating in NaNo. And of course by it being November, celebrating the Thanksgiving holiday presented some challenges within itself. But I persevered and stuck with it and celebrated writing 50,000 words in 30 days. I was so proud of myself. So, having gotten a taste of victory there was no reason for me to think I couldn’t do it again and have a repeat of the same success. There were a few factors this year that I had not accounted that were different a little different from last year and greatly impacted my writing.

Guest vs. Host There is a significant difference between being a guest for Thanksgiving and hosting Thanksgiving dinner. I wish I had gotten the memo. I had hosted before, but never as a writer. And as usual, that superwoman mentality kicked in and somehow the illusion of being able to do it all took hold.

I agreed to host both sides of our families for the holiday. No big deal. I had an elaborate, airtight plan for my NaNo writing schedule all worked out and I was ready to get those 50,000 words done before the first guest arrived. I started off strong and was feeling over confident until the reality of my hosting situation set in.

While being with family and friends is not all about impressions, there are certain things that are just unacceptable when hosting guests from out of town. For instance, when the shower faucet in the guest bathroom breaks, you kind of have to get that fixed. Pliers are fine if you live here, but guests and pliers? I don’t think so. Or when you look up and realize that the couch that’s been broken for months could suddenly swallow a guest and twist one of the elder’s backs, you sort of have to give that some attention. Basically, my home needed a few tweaks if I was going to host. And that was the monkey wrench that sent me on a downward spiral with NaNo.

Our old shower faucet literally crumbled to pieces in my son’s hand. Fortunately, it was a DIY project. Unfortunately, it took a while to get the right part to fix it. A little inside tip about me – I’m a DIYer. But that doesn’t mean I’m good at it. I love trying to fix simple things around the house and doing simple home improvement projects. I don’t wait for hubby to do it, I just jump in and get it done myself. Translation? 30 minute projects = 2 hour projects when I’m at the helm. Therefore, fixing the shower fell on my schedule. I probably lost about one day of writing with the shower, but I caught up. All was not lost . . . until we tackled the whole furniture issue for the holiday.

Our faux leather couch was ripped, parts falling off of it, and so badly broken that If you sat in it you literally slid off onto the floor. It was that bad. Kinda funny when it’s just you and your family. But the idea of other people coming into your home and having to sit on that – no. Plus, we needed general seating for everyone. Twenty people in one house need somewhere to sit, especially the elders. That meant shopping! Now, while I don’t like shopping, I do enjoy shopping for my home. And furniture is not one of those things you just go in, find what works, and walk out with something amazing. Not unless you want to replace it sooner than later.

The short of it is, I was in the midst of furniture shopping online and in-store, preparing a menu, deep cleaning (because some of our loved ones have allergies), and still trying to carry on with day-to-day parenting stuff. That may be easy for some writers to manage, but not this writer. And let’s keep in mind, some of the new purchases had to be assembled. And did I mention that our families would be visiting for several days? So that meant we were also having to put together itineraries.

By the time everyone arrived I was already a week and a half behind with my writing. But I was still hopeful I could make time to squeeze it in and catch up. Just because I was behind by 20,000 words didn’t mean all was lost. But as each day slowly got behind me I was losing my confidence of finishing. Then, when Turkey Day finally arrived and I was sitting around watching my sons, nephew, and my little cousins all playing and running around; as I laughed hysterically with my sister and cousins at our antics; as I stole a moment to hold hands with my husband; as I laughed and caught up with my brother; and as I chuckled at our moms and aunts with their “motherly” expressions taking it all in, I suddenly realized that I didn’t care about my word count.  I mean, I cared . . . but I didn’t. I focused on enjoying my family. Putting together that new lounge set; picking out and placing the new couch just right; checking to make sure my DIY plumbing project wasn’t leaking and exploding on anyone; getting the menu just right; slightly burning the cornbread; and enjoying every moment with my family made me care less and less about making that word count. That is – until they all went home of course.

When all was quiet (as quiet as quiet can be with a husband, a rabbit, and two boys) only then could I focus on that word count again. With three days remaining before the deadline, I pretty much knew I wouldn’t make it. So, what I decided to do instead was focus on what I could do. I set a goal to at least finish November with a 30,000 word count and that’s exactly what I did.

I can’t say that I wasn’t disappointed about not reaching 50,000 words. I felt empty. But I would be lying to myself if I said I didn’t feel that I’d brushed off my writing for a good cause. Half of our family we see only once per year. The other half we had not seen in two years. As much as I love writing, I love my family more. Though I’ll have the memory of not making 50,000 words in November 2016, I’ll have an even sweeter memory of spending a wonderful, love-filled holiday with family.

Lessons Learned My take away for 2016 is a simple one. Squeezing in NaNo when you just have to show up for dinner with a dish, is much more feasible than squeezing in NaNo when you have to host a large group of family members from out of town.  I won’t be doing that again. In the future, if I decide to host for Thanksgiving, I won’t participate in NaNo. I’ll just support all my writer friends by cheering them on. Though I’m disappointed about this year’s results, I can honestly say I have no regrets.

If you didn’t make your word count this year for NaNo, don’t beat yourself up over it. Whatever your reasoning for not winning, just learn from this experience and make adjustments for next year. If you’ve never won NaNo but you enjoy the experience, relax. You will be victorious. Just not this time. There is always next year.

Congratulations to all the NaNoWriMo participants and those that won this year! I’m looking forward to NaNo 2017. I hope to be victorious with you. For now, let’s get ready for the holidays. Eat. Drink. Be merry. But make sure you set a little time aside to write on!

Script v. Type

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Candace M. Ruffin, Candace Ruffin, Candace Ruffin Author, Creating Cane, Write, Writing Process

Recently I posted a picture on IG depicting my current writing venture. . . in manuscript. Most of the time I type when I write because the ideas seem to flow more smoothly and quickly versus writing. Typically, my journals are dedicated to notes, ideas, story concepts, and quick inspirations as they relate to one specific story. But oddly enough, one particular day I picked up an empty journal and a story flowed from me more fluidly than I had known.

I have been typing for so long I practically forgot how liberating pen-to-paper can actually be for a writer. Here is what I’ve learned from that experience and why I intend to handwrite my stories more often.

I feel relaxed when I write – at least I thought I did. When I sit down to my keyboard and start clicking away on the keys it makes me feel  – well – busy. Typing makes me feel as if I’m focused and working at a fast pace. But, I also feel a level of stress when typing. As if, I’m up against a deadline and must get as many words out (regardless of quality) as possible. However, the day I sat down with a pen was the day I was reminded of how writing is supposed to feel. My thoughts were more complete. I couldn’t believe I had fewer mistakes. And I even found myself smiling with each stroke of the pen. I was enjoying my craft. Which admittedly, was odd considering I thought I had been enjoying it all along. I have never been more relaxed while writing as I was in that moment.

Perhaps the most shocking experience of reconnecting with the pen and pad was how each stroke of the pen was so in sync with my thoughts. It would be impossible to track how many times the backspace/delete buttons are depressed during a writing session or how many times I change my train of thought while typing. However, as I wrote my story by hand, the number of times the eraser was used never hit double digits. It was as if my mind slowed down and made my words coherent the first time around. My hands and mind were so in sync, it was a thing of beauty.

Upon finishing a session each day my mind was clear. I normally have a sense of relief after writing anyway, but the pen was somehow different. I think I was smiling for at least an hour after I finished my handwritten sessions. I was so proud of the day’s accomplishment – humming, singing, checking other things off of my list. I felt like I had achieved real writing.

One final thing that stood out through my handwriting experience was I made so much progress on the story – more than I have in any other manuscript. Unlike many of my projects, this one is actually almost done! (The first draft that is). Perhaps it was the storyline. Perhaps it was my internal motivation. Perhaps it’s just a coincidence. I’m not sure. What I do know is, in all this time, I have not moved toward the completion of a manuscript as quickly as I have this one. The only factor that has been different is the fact that it is handwritten. There must be something to it. I’m certainly open to exploring it more.

Every writer has their own preference for writing. Some choose handwriting, some choose typing, and some use dictation software. The bottomline is, whatever gets you to that sense of freedom – do it! Ultimately, I will most likely use a combination of forms, but right now this is working. I’ll just let the manuscript at the time guide me. You do the same. Which ever method helps you fully develop your characters, setting, and conflict is the method you should use.

Enjoy you craft and write on!

What the Prep?

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I still can’t believe I’m about to do this! The first of November is Sunday. I feel strong going into this, but whoa! This will certainly be a new experience for me and I’m looking forward to it. But every time I think about that word count goal . . .

I’ve spent the last several days getting ready for the big NaNoWriMo event in hopes that a little prep will go a long way toward meeting my goal.

Feeling the Energy As the weather begins to cool here in sunny Florida, I’m revamping a space in my garage (don’t mind the dead plant) because that’s where I’m feeling the most creative these days. I love doing household projects and crafts in this space, but it wasn’t until recently that I actually tried writing in it. Boy did the juices start flowing. I’ve determined that this is where I seem to be most inspired and this will definitely be my “go-to” studio through the month of November, and possibly beyond.

Author Head Spaces Attending local writing events and workshops is always a great way to get your head in gear for writing. I attended a NaNoWriMo panel that really lit a fire under me, not just for November, but in general. I can’t stress enough how being around other writers is always refreshing and inspirational.

I also tuned into an authors panel via Spreecast. This was just as inspiring as the live panel and though I wasn’t able to attend the live event, I love that I could at least replay the panel from the comforts of my home at a time that was suitable for my schedule. The bonus was getting additional tips to help me throughout my writing career.

The Work I narrowed my novel ideas down to two concepts and just decided which one I’m going to run with for my first NaNoWriMo. This will be a case of starting from scratch and rewriting that novel that’s just been collecting dust for over a year now. One thing I’ve learned from attending writing events is – sometimes you just have to start over. The work isn’t going anywhere because I’m just not passionate enough about it. So, regardless of how much I’ve already put on paper, this is a must-do-redo and I’m ready. I’ve revised my characters to include more in depth character sketches, thought out the worlds in which my characters will live and interact, and have a general idea of where I want the story to go. I think I was missing some of these elements before, but the gaps are filled in, and there’s nowhere to go but through the pages.

The Distraction Plan I am prepared for that pesky Something Shiny Syndrome to rear it’s ugly head and keep me from meeting my daily writing goals. But not to worry. I’m prepared with a plan to write that incorporates all those planned and unplanned distractions – that holiday road trip, field trips and events at the kids’ schools, neighborhood events and functions, even running low on my caffeine supply and budget. Whatever the distraction, I’m ready to write – in the car, before the field trips and events, and during the kids’ practices. And just in case my caffeine stash and/or budget runs low, those quarters and nickels I’ve been dropping in old jars for years are ready for me to take to the conversion machine at the nearest supermarket so I can turn my coins into cash and restock and reload. No excuses people!

Within Reach Things I’m prepared to have within reach while writing this new novel: CHOCOLATE! Coffee, tea, or my favorite dark soda (pop for my northern folks); My favorite cheddar popcorn (I have to have this stuff); CHOCOLATE; A quick meat source for protein (peanut butter doesn’t always do it for me); paper and pens; any type of mobile device; and last but not least… did I mention CHOCOLATE? (Okay, I admit this is the candy we’re supposed to be passing out for Halloween, but they don’t need all those cavities anyway…right?)

Well, hopefully I can secure an emergency chocolate stash after Halloween. I’m sure the kids won’t mind.

There you have it. This novel is getting done! It has to. Wish me luck. If you don’t hear from me in November, hopefully it just means I’m lost in a good book – my own. Happy writing and write on!

Palms to Pines

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Occasionally I get moved to jot down a few lines of poetry. Whether it is good or not is left to the reader. But this one was inspired by a mere observation. We are writers regardless of genre. There is no rule that says you should only write within one genre. If you’re so moved, then grab your pencil, pen, or handy device and ink the words that are in your heart. It doesn’t matter the genre, only that you scribe.

Clear.
Waving goodbye.
Arms outstretched.
Smiling. Waving.

Fading away.
Apart we grow.
Fading smiles.
Arms are down.

I look ahead.
Bitter-sweet.
Missing your song,
Missing your dance.

The sun shines ahead.
Arms to greet.
Sharp and robust.
So many cheek-to-cheek.

Tall and royal.
Spirited joy.
Shielding. Protecting.
Abundant in love.
Clear again.

Do you write poetry despite your genre? What inspires you to write poetry? Share in the comments below. Whatever you feel the need to pen, write on!

Scripts and Scribbles: Getting kids writing

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Photo by C. M. Ruffin

I’ve taught Reading and Language Arts for many years in public schools. One of the recurring struggles with my students was getting them to understand two things: (1) Reading and writing are connected; and (2) Reading and writing don’t have to be such a chore and a burden. I have tried many things to encourage my students to write and become better writers. I have pulled from my own inspirations and experiences; attended writing workshops for teachers; and simply made some things up (usually a little unorthodox, but whatever it takes to grab their interest).

My oldest son loathes reading. He absolutely hates the very idea of it. But many of the things he enjoys doing, unfortunately for him, involve reading. But not just looking at the words and saying the words, but active, in-depth reading. Our struggle with him has been taxing. But I’m forced to pull from my experience to try and help him become a better reader. It finally occurred to me to appeal to him through writing (which he hates more than reading by-the-way). But it’s easier to appeal to him from a writing perspective rather than reading. Here’s why:

My son is a lover of movies all things LEGO®, super and graphic. He could watch movies 24 hours a day if we let him. (For the record, we don’t. Let’s be clear) When he’s not watching a movie, quoting a movie, or reviewing a movie, then he’s drawing and creating comics. He started early-on copying comics and characters, and eventually began creating his own. The illustrations are great, but the content was questionable, and understandably so. He hates writing.

Photo by C. M. Ruffin

Well, I finally think I figured out how to get him on the writing train. Last summer we enrolled him in an art camp centered around puppet-making (because he’s fascinated with marionettes). For one week the kids created their own puppets – all forms of puppets. But they also had to put together performances using their puppets, which involved script-writing. At the end of the camp, they worked in groups to put on a full production for parents, which included writing the script for the play. Through this experience I realized that the best way to appeal to my son’s inner-author was through script writing. Currently he is working on a mini-movie using the LEGO® Movie Maker app in which he is also required (by me) to write the script for the movie. Now, understand, he’s going to middle school so of course this is met with some resistance. Despite his resistance however, he is finally beginning to see the connection between good writing and imagery. Like I said, the movie is still in production, and he’s been working on it for three months. I can’t wait to see what he’s put together.

The point is, just as adult writers have to pull our inspiration from different areas of life, so do children. Writing inspiration can’t just happen in the classroom and we can’t rely on the classroom to develop our children into fine writers. Sometimes we have to think outside of the box. Through my son’s love for movies he is becoming a stronger writer. Despite arguments that writing is a dying art form, there are still ways to use our advances in technology to grow effective writers.

This year we’ve enrolled him in graphic novel camp. Hopefully, this will continue to encourage and inspire some form of writing for him.

What were some of your childhood inspirations? What are some non-traditional methods you’ve come up with to encourage good writing? Don’t hesitate to share. Teachers, parents, and writers alike can benefit from fresh ideas to get our kids writing.

Write on!